Separate observable behavior from the explanation anxiety supplies.
When their silence is louder than any answer
They went quiet.
Should you text, wait, or walk away?
Four questions turn the spiral into a decision: what you know, what fear is filling in, and the next move that gives you real evidence.
About 2 minutesNo mind-readingPrivate by design
Your situation · Step 1 of 4
What actually happened?
What was their last clear behavior?
What this is built on
Emotional clarity without pretending certainty.
Describe pursuit and distance as a reciprocal pattern—not a diagnosis.
Prepare for clear, vague, and absent responses before emotion chooses for you.
Entertainment and self-reflection only—not therapy, crisis support, or a prediction of fate.
No hidden-feeling claimsUnknown stays unknown
No diagnosisPatterns, not personality labels
No pressure paymentValue before pricing